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Wednesday, March 28, 2007

Mstr A moves forward

We had our second appointment with the paediatrician today. Only a year since the last one, so that's not too bad!

At least we did see the same Dr. Theoretically we should have changed as the other paediatrician covers Mstr A's new school.

It went quite well, I think. She talked to us about how he was getting on, and what issues were still causing problems. Then she asked him a few questions about school, which he happily answered - without once turning to face her or look her in the eye, which helpfully backed up what we were saying about his social awareness.

she wants to do a load more tests - some written ones for us & the school to complete, and a long interview type one which she'll book in soon(ish). She also said she would chase up the speech & language referral, as that was stymied when we changed schools! and follow that up with a meeting of all the professionals, including th school & us to discuss the way forward.

I mentioned that we'd used the word Asbergers to Mstr A, and his school friends because he had asked. I knew she would, and she did, immediately purse her lips and say we shouldn't label it until he is diagnosed. But it's going to take YEARS to get a real diagnosis, an EVERYONE says what a typical aspie he is. And he was asking. What should I say? you're just different? He'd ask different how? Should I try to explain to his 6 year old school friends that he is "behaviourally challenged and has social awareness issues"? A word is easy for them to grasp, and it can always be changed at a letr date if necessary. But since I have had a "diagnosis" from a consultant, an educational psychologist, various autism support workers and numerous interested parties. as well as my own research, I think it is a likely diagnosis.

On the other hand, he is doing really well at school now - mostly working within the group and staying in class a good 75% of the time. He understands that bhis behaviour neds tobe modified & learned for each situation, and he has made friends that are willing to come to his house and nvite him back to theirs occasionally. he's still hard work, but we're working on it.

I decided to get in with him for his swimming lesson last night, as although he has not been wandering off from th group so much this time round, he also hasn't been learning much swimming. One-to-one worked really well. All I had to do was keep his mind on the lesson, and he was well away - swimming his first full width without help:-)
all in all, a pretty positive move forwar for Mstr A

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1 Comments:

  • At Thursday, March 29, 2007 6:22:00 am, Blogger Candy Minx said…

    Oh isn't this good news, I am sure you must stress about him...I am happy to hear your special story and that your son is so interested in his own diagnosis and defining the terms. A tv show here called "The View" had a show devoted to breakthroughs and kids and family's dealing with all levels of Aspi's and it was fascinating and very hopeful. I lived ina group home once when kids were given away by parents with Down's Syndrome and Autism...and now there is so much research and hope for the kids...what a difference.

    do you try any vitamin therapy like lots of B Vitamins for concetrainot or the like, no sugar, hiugh protein...I wonder whats out there?

    Great to visit your blog...I found you through Thursday Thirteen and I'm a little early.

    I have a small survey of questions about art and what art fo people liek in their homes I hope you have a chance to visit. I would love your help!

    Candy

    here is survey sets:

    http://gnosticminx.blogspot.com/2007/03/candys-special-tour-of-art-on-ebay.html

     

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